Helping Children Find Their Voice
Communication is one of the most important life skills children develop in the early years. Through communication, children learn to express their needs, share their ideas, build relationships and understand the world around them.
These skills begin developing from birth as babies watch the adults around them, listen to voices and start experimenting with sounds. Responsive adults play a crucial role in supporting this development. When adults listen carefully, talk with children and respond to their attempts to communicate, children gain confidence and gradually develop their language skills.
At KatieB Kids we are often asked how parents can support communication development at home. Below we share practical ideas and guidance that can help support children at different stages of early communication.
Why Communication Matters
At KatieB Kids, communication is at the heart of everything we do. Developing speech, language, and social skills is more than learning words, it’s how children understand the world, form relationships, express emotions, and explore ideas.
Language develops best in warm, responsive environments where adults tune in, listen carefully, and talk with children about the world around them. Our tips below share practical strategies that can be woven into everyday routines and play to support children at all stages of communication development. Whether children are just beginning to babble or starting to have conversations, these tips help build strong foundations for learning, self-expression, and emotional wellbeing.
Look through the window and you might see a teacher listening carefully as a child experiments with new words, celebrates each success, or plays a language-rich game with friends. Every interaction builds confidence, creativity, and critical thinking.
Below we provide practical guidance for parents to extend these skills at home, from Makaton and storytelling, to everyday conversations and shared reading. Together, nursery and home create a rich, language-filled environment that supports growth, curiosity, and connection.
Communication Milestones
Children develop communication skills at different rates, but there are typical developmental milestones that can help parents understand what to expect.
The guide below provides an overview of communication development from birth to four years.
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• Makes cooing and babbling sounds
• Watches faces closely when people talk
• Responds to voices and sounds
• Smiles and laughs in response to others -
• Begins babbling strings of sounds
• Uses gestures such as pointing
• May say first words
• Understands familiar words like “bye-bye” -
• Uses around 20 words
• Understands simple phrases
• Points to familiar objects
• Begins simple pretend play -
• Uses around 50 words or more
• Begins combining words
• Understands simple questions
• Follows two-step instructions -
• Speaks in short sentences
• Asks simple questions
• Understands descriptive words
• Follows more complex instructions
Supporting Communication at Different Stages
First Communication
Young babies learn communication by watching faces, listening to voices and copying sounds.
Simple everyday interactions help build these early skills.
Ways to support your baby’s communication:
• Get close and talk at your baby’s level. Facial expressions are a powerful part of communication.
• Talk to your baby throughout the day, describing what you are doing and what they are experiencing.
• Copy your baby’s sounds and take turns “talking”.
• Use gestures alongside words such as waving when saying “bye-bye”.
• Sing songs and nursery rhymes regularly.
• Play simple games such as peek-a-boo.
• Look at picture books together and talk about what you see.
• Repeat playful phrases such as “ready, steady, go”.
Next steps
As children grow, they begin experimenting with words and sounds.
Encouraging their attempts and modelling language helps build confidence.
Ways to support toddler communication:
• Respond to what your child is doing and saying.
• Model the words they may be trying to say.
• Narrate everyday activities such as “you’re washing your hands”.
• Encourage children to name objects rather than pointing.
• Give children time to express themselves.
• Reduce background distractions such as television.
• Limit dummy use during waking hours.
• Look at picture books together and talk about the images.
Consolidating communication
As children approach school age, communication becomes more complex.
Adults can support this by expanding conversations and encouraging listening and storytelling.
Ways to support preschool communication:
• Extend sentences your child says.
• Repeat words clearly rather than correcting them directly.
• Sing nursery rhymes and leave gaps for children to fill in.
• Go on listening walks and identify sounds around you.
• Read stories regularly and talk about the pictures.
• Use words in different contexts to deepen understanding.
Communication grows through relationships.
Everyday interactions with caring, responsive adults help children learn that their voice matters. Through conversation, shared play, storytelling and attentive listening, children begin to understand that their thoughts, feelings and ideas can be expressed and valued.
When adults slow down, listen carefully and give children time to respond, they create the space where language, confidence and connection can flourish.
If you ever have questions or concerns about your child’s communication development, our educators are always happy to talk and offer guidance.
At KatieB Kids, we believe every child deserves to feel heard, understood and confident in expressing themselves. Supporting communication is not simply about learning words — it is about helping children find their voice.
For further guidance and support on children’s communication development, you can also visit ICAN – The Children’s Communication Charity:
https://ican.org.uk/
“Listening is where love begins: listening to ourselves and then to our children.”
— Fred Rogers